Psychology
Mahatma Gandhi, Indian pacifist: “The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong”
Psychology is taking a closer look at one uncomfortable habit: what it could mean when someone won’t make eye contact
Albert Einstein, scientist: “Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving”
Pythagoras, Greek philosopher and mathematician: “Educate the children and it won’t be necessary to punish the men”
Psychology suggests that people who move a shopping cart out of the aisle without being asked are not only more polite, but have often developed a subtle form of social awareness that allows them to sense tension even before others point it out
Psychology suggests that people who walk with their hands behind their backs aren’t necessarily striking a pose or trying to look solemn; often, they’re simply adopting a more relaxed physical rhythm that can facilitate reflection and calm the mind
Psychology suggests that the strange sense of emptiness many people feel when they turn forty isn’t always due to burnout; it often arises when a life built on sensible decisions begins to feel more like a burden than a choice
Psychology suggests that people who send a simple “I was thinking of you” without asking for anything in return aren’t just being kind—they’re often offering one of the most subtle and effective ways to make someone feel remembered
Psychology suggests that people who freeze up when faced with a blank page aren’t always lazy or undisciplined; they are often reacting to a mix of anxiety, insecurity, and fear of making a mistake before they’ve even started
Psychology suggests that people with healthier self-esteem aren’t always the most confident or outgoing; they’ve often learned something much more subtle and difficult: to value themselves as people worth counting on
Psychology suggests that people who stack their plates after finishing a meal at a restaurant aren’t just being tidy; they’re often showing a subtle form of respect and consideration for the work that others do, behind the scenes, around the table
Psychology suggests that people who grew up in the 1950s and 1960s are not always cold or distant; they often learned to cope in homes where talking about emotions was seen less as a relief and more as a threat to the established order
Queen Elizabeth II: “It’s worth remembering that it is often the small steps, not the giant leaps, that bring about the most lasting change”
Psychology suggests that the true hallmark of a childhood with little praise is not always a lack of ambition, but rather a more low-key lifestyle: carrying on without paying too much attention to the outside world, whilst, on the inside, self-criticism takes up too much space
A Chinese proverb says that a conversation with a wise person is worth more than a month’s worth of reading; this is not a criticism of reading, but a reminder of the difference between information and judgement











