{"id":7082,"date":"2025-02-16T09:00:23","date_gmt":"2025-02-16T14:00:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/okdiario.com\/metabolic\/en\/?p=7082"},"modified":"2025-02-13T04:52:18","modified_gmt":"2025-02-13T09:52:18","slug":"the-top-6-early-actions-parents-of-high-achievers-take-based-on-a-study-of-200-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/okdiario.com\/metabolic\/en\/psychology\/relationships-and-society\/the-top-6-early-actions-parents-of-high-achievers-take-based-on-a-study-of-200-kids-7082\/","title":{"rendered":"The top 6 early actions parents of high achievers take, based on a study of 200+ kids"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A recent study of over 200 kids by parenting expert <a href=\"https:\/\/www.highloveparenting.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Reem Raouda<\/strong><\/a> shows that success is more than grades and trophies. These parents did things early on that helped their children grow into <strong>confident, emotionally secure, and curious individuals<\/strong>. In a world where test scores often steal the spotlight, Raouda&#8217;s research reminds us that real achievement comes from <strong>building strong character and self-belief<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>In her research, Raouda uncovered everyday habits that set high achievers apart. Her work highlights how <strong>parents can create a nurturing environment that encourages personal growth and <a href=\"https:\/\/okdiario.com\/metabolic\/en\/psychology\/miscellany-and-curiosities\/raising-resilient-kids-this-is-the-no-1-takeaway-from-interviews-with-over-100-parents-5910\/\">resilience<\/a><\/strong>. Let&#8217;s dive into the six key actions these parents took to help their children succeed.<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_76 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Contenido<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/okdiario.com\/metabolic\/en\/psychology\/relationships-and-society\/the-top-6-early-actions-parents-of-high-achievers-take-based-on-a-study-of-200-kids-7082\/#1_Working_on_themselves\" >1. Working on themselves<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/okdiario.com\/metabolic\/en\/psychology\/relationships-and-society\/the-top-6-early-actions-parents-of-high-achievers-take-based-on-a-study-of-200-kids-7082\/#2_Valuing_questions_over_quick_answers\" >2. Valuing questions over quick answers<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/okdiario.com\/metabolic\/en\/psychology\/relationships-and-society\/the-top-6-early-actions-parents-of-high-achievers-take-based-on-a-study-of-200-kids-7082\/#3_Letting_kids_take_the_lead\" >3. Letting kids take the lead<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/okdiario.com\/metabolic\/en\/psychology\/relationships-and-society\/the-top-6-early-actions-parents-of-high-achievers-take-based-on-a-study-of-200-kids-7082\/#4_Making_reading_a_daily_habit\" >4. Making reading a daily habit<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/okdiario.com\/metabolic\/en\/psychology\/relationships-and-society\/the-top-6-early-actions-parents-of-high-achievers-take-based-on-a-study-of-200-kids-7082\/#5_Focusing_on_a_genuine_connection\" >5. Focusing on a genuine connection<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/okdiario.com\/metabolic\/en\/psychology\/relationships-and-society\/the-top-6-early-actions-parents-of-high-achievers-take-based-on-a-study-of-200-kids-7082\/#6_Embracing_all_emotions\" >6. Embracing all emotions<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Working_on_themselves\"><\/span>1. Working on themselves<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Successful parents know that their actions speak louder than words. When a parent handles a tough situation calmly, <strong>kids learn to face challenges with a level head<\/strong>. Modeling this healthy behavior helps children navigate school, sports, and life&#8217;s ups and downs. This teaches kids the importance of staying composed and collected when facing obstacles.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Valuing_questions_over_quick_answers\"><\/span>2. Valuing questions over quick answers<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Parents of high achievers favored &#8220;why&#8221; and &#8220;how&#8221; questions over right-or-wrong responses. Instead of handing over answers, <strong>they encouraged their kids to explore and ask questions<\/strong>, which sparks creativity and critical thinking skills. Kids who learn to question everything are more likely to become innovative problem solvers.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Letting_kids_take_the_lead\"><\/span>3. Letting kids take the lead<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Sometimes the best teacher is your child. Parents who <strong>let their kids explain how they solve a math problem or teach a new game<\/strong> make their children feel valued. This simple act boosts self-esteem and shows them that their ideas matter. By stepping back, parents give space for young minds to shine, fostering independence and confidence in decision-making.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Making_reading_a_daily_habit\"><\/span>4. Making reading a daily habit<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Parents who integrate reading into everyday routines help their kids <strong>build vocabulary, boost concentration, and ignite imagination<\/strong>. Whether it&#8217;s a picture book before bedtime or a chapter of a novel on a lazy afternoon, reading together can lead to a love for learning and lays the foundation for academic and personal success.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Focusing_on_a_genuine_connection\"><\/span>5. Focusing on a genuine connection<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>High-achieving kids often have parents who <strong>invest quality time, listen actively, and share experiences<\/strong>. This deep connection creates a safe space where children feel understood and supported. The focus on bonding can lead to greater confidence and a willingness to take healthy risks for them.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_Embracing_all_emotions\"><\/span>6. Embracing all emotions<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>A full life isn&#8217;t about staying happy all the time. Whether it&#8217;s the sting of a loss or the thrill of a win, <strong>recognizing feelings and talking about them increases emotional strength<\/strong>. For example, when a child is upset after a setback, a simple acknowledgment like: &#8220;I see how much this matters to you&#8221; helps them process their emotions. This approach makes it easier for them to bounce back from challenges and learn from every experience.<\/p>\n<p>The goal is to create an environment where kids feel <strong>secure, curious, and understood<\/strong>. When parents work on themselves, value questions, let kids teach, read together daily, build strong relationships, and embrace emotions, they prepare them to face the world and its challenges with confidence.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A recent study of over 200 kids by parenting expert Reem Raouda shows that success is more than grades and trophies. These parents did things early on that helped their children grow into confident, emotionally secure, and curious individuals. 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